Holy shit you're 'Black Dragon'? I was introduced to your writings wayyy back in the day by the legendary Rational Male & Heartiste blog commenter 'YaReally' who held you in very high esteem. By far the best most practical advice for non-monogamous relationships.
The way you describe the "Queen of the Hill" phase is so true, it's hilarious. They don't just want to be your "#1 girl," but they want to be totally categorically different from the other girls lol.
Terrific breakdown as always and I wish I could have caught it live. As a man over 50 and dealing with some women 45+, they seem to want to get to the monogamy/"would you like to see other women" discussion very early, as they want to jump into a serious relationship sooner over later for obvious reasons. Personally, I've had much success telling them (without saying where the model came from of course) that I do not plan on being monogamous with any woman in the near future, they can of course do what they want to do, and we can end things now to avoid wasting time.
The vast majority have said, "I never thought I would be okay with a man saying this, but I so appreciate the fact that you were honest", and the results have even exceeded my expectations.
Makes me wonder if the "don't tell early" recommendation is more for women in a specific age group.
Hey Caleb, would you ever sell the Blackdragon relationships report as a separate product? I'm very interested in that, but I don't think I'll get this whole course/bundle because I already have the book version and my budget is tight right now.
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Holy shit you're 'Black Dragon'? I was introduced to your writings wayyy back in the day by the legendary Rational Male & Heartiste blog commenter 'YaReally' who held you in very high esteem. By far the best most practical advice for non-monogamous relationships.
More content about high-end MLTRs and non-live-in OLTRs (rules, odds of it lasting or obtacles to it, etc) would be very welcome.
The way you describe the "Queen of the Hill" phase is so true, it's hilarious. They don't just want to be your "#1 girl," but they want to be totally categorically different from the other girls lol.
Terrific breakdown as always and I wish I could have caught it live. As a man over 50 and dealing with some women 45+, they seem to want to get to the monogamy/"would you like to see other women" discussion very early, as they want to jump into a serious relationship sooner over later for obvious reasons. Personally, I've had much success telling them (without saying where the model came from of course) that I do not plan on being monogamous with any woman in the near future, they can of course do what they want to do, and we can end things now to avoid wasting time.
The vast majority have said, "I never thought I would be okay with a man saying this, but I so appreciate the fact that you were honest", and the results have even exceeded my expectations.
Makes me wonder if the "don't tell early" recommendation is more for women in a specific age group.
Hey Caleb, would you ever sell the Blackdragon relationships report as a separate product? I'm very interested in that, but I don't think I'll get this whole course/bundle because I already have the book version and my budget is tight right now.